Dr. David Burns
๐ค SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
No, no, you've got it all wrong. A lot of people admire me. I think they must be desperate or have very low standards, but I can tell you I have tons of flaws, and people should probably look down on me more than they do. And there are thousands of people out there who look down on me and think I'm a kook, and they're probably half right or 75% right. Are you one of them?
No, no, you've got it all wrong. A lot of people admire me. I think they must be desperate or have very low standards, but I can tell you I have tons of flaws, and people should probably look down on me more than they do. And there are thousands of people out there who look down on me and think I'm a kook, and they're probably half right or 75% right. Are you one of them?
I'm not anymore. Okay.
I'm not anymore. Okay.
So who won that one?
So who won that one?
You definitely won that one.
You definitely won that one.
Big or small?
Big or small?
Big. Huge. Also because you made it kind of funny. Like, you know, finding agreement in it and then making it funny. It takes the power and the anxiety and the animosity out of it.
Big. Huge. Also because you made it kind of funny. Like, you know, finding agreement in it and then making it funny. It takes the power and the anxiety and the animosity out of it.
But the key to it is that it didn't threaten me because I've done my inner dialogue. Because, see, you've got to be able to trigger my self-hatred. That's the first key to overcoming bullying is learn to love yourself.
But the key to it is that it didn't threaten me because I've done my inner dialogue. Because, see, you've got to be able to trigger my self-hatred. That's the first key to overcoming bullying is learn to love yourself.
Oh, that's such an important part. Could you just say that again?
Oh, that's such an important part. Could you just say that again?
Well, the key to overcoming bullying is learning to love yourself. Now, I'll be a fourth grader, and you can try to bully me, Rhonda, or Manuel, or Matt.
Well, the key to overcoming bullying is learning to love yourself. Now, I'll be a fourth grader, and you can try to bully me, Rhonda, or Manuel, or Matt.
Oh, you know, I love this shirt. I think I just have, I must have weird taste. But, you know, I love the way you look. It's just kind of a brown T-shirt. It's kind of a hunky, awesome look. That's cool. Mike, where did you get that one? Maybe I'll get one of those myself and wear it tomorrow.
Oh, you know, I love this shirt. I think I just have, I must have weird taste. But, you know, I love the way you look. It's just kind of a brown T-shirt. It's kind of a hunky, awesome look. That's cool. Mike, where did you get that one? Maybe I'll get one of those myself and wear it tomorrow.