Dr. David Rosmarin
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Well, you know, that is important. The situational aspect is very important. But how you are sort of engaging in your anxiety. Like I said, the four, five, and six, are you able to use that level of anxiety in a constructive, positive way?
Well, you know, that is important. The situational aspect is very important. But how you are sort of engaging in your anxiety. Like I said, the four, five, and six, are you able to use that level of anxiety in a constructive, positive way?
Well, you know, that is important. The situational aspect is very important. But how you are sort of engaging in your anxiety. Like I said, the four, five, and six, are you able to use that level of anxiety in a constructive, positive way?
I don't know. I think a lot of people might be like, hey, I'm building, I'm an entrepreneur. They're starting a new business. They're having a battle of a time. They're feeling stressed out, might've gained a couple pounds. And they know that they're at a four or five and a six, but they're like, but I'm going to get through this.
I don't know. I think a lot of people might be like, hey, I'm building, I'm an entrepreneur. They're starting a new business. They're having a battle of a time. They're feeling stressed out, might've gained a couple pounds. And they know that they're at a four or five and a six, but they're like, but I'm going to get through this.
I don't know. I think a lot of people might be like, hey, I'm building, I'm an entrepreneur. They're starting a new business. They're having a battle of a time. They're feeling stressed out, might've gained a couple pounds. And they know that they're at a four or five and a six, but they're like, but I'm going to get through this.
So that often we see that as the goal. I'm not sure I do. I think that if, firstly, with medication, clinicians often overpromise and they say, I'm going to get your anxiety down to a one and it's going to stay there. I'm not sure that's even helpful.
So that often we see that as the goal. I'm not sure I do. I think that if, firstly, with medication, clinicians often overpromise and they say, I'm going to get your anxiety down to a one and it's going to stay there. I'm not sure that's even helpful.
So that often we see that as the goal. I'm not sure I do. I think that if, firstly, with medication, clinicians often overpromise and they say, I'm going to get your anxiety down to a one and it's going to stay there. I'm not sure that's even helpful.
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Validate, validate, validate. There's a reason why they don't want to go to the sleepover. And even if it doesn't make sense to you, it makes sense to their anxiety. You have to delve into that anxiety with them and allow them to explore it. The more you say, oh, there's no reason to be upset, the more they're just going to think that their anxiety is a problem.
Validate, validate, validate. There's a reason why they don't want to go to the sleepover. And even if it doesn't make sense to you, it makes sense to their anxiety. You have to delve into that anxiety with them and allow them to explore it. The more you say, oh, there's no reason to be upset, the more they're just going to think that their anxiety is a problem.
Validate, validate, validate. There's a reason why they don't want to go to the sleepover. And even if it doesn't make sense to you, it makes sense to their anxiety. You have to delve into that anxiety with them and allow them to explore it. The more you say, oh, there's no reason to be upset, the more they're just going to think that their anxiety is a problem.
They might not even be conscious of what they're afraid of. But if you just ask them, why wouldn't you want to go to a sleepover? Not judging, just asking.
They might not even be conscious of what they're afraid of. But if you just ask them, why wouldn't you want to go to a sleepover? Not judging, just asking.
They might not even be conscious of what they're afraid of. But if you just ask them, why wouldn't you want to go to a sleepover? Not judging, just asking.
Yeah, that would be upsetting.