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Dr. Eliza Philby

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
842 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

Now parenting is a 30 year financial commitment with the most expensive years after 18, right?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

And that's how we, you think about the language we use around parenting.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

We invest in our children.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

It's an economic commitment here, right?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

So the way that parenting has gone is women are having fewer children.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

They're having them closer together.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

That's really important.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

And they're having them much later in life.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

And that is a product to a large degree of choice, right?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

Because as soon as you start educating women to tertiary level, the birth rate declines massively and they have children later.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

Yeah.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

It's about choice, but it's also about economic burdens and the complexities of trying to find a partner.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

And I use gender neutral terms there deliberately, right?

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

Because families come in many forms.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

And also you're seeing increasing number of women, I have many friends that are, chosen single mothers that are choosing to...

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

make a child on their own steam.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

So the model of what a family looks like, the model of how women procreate, just all looks very different.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

But to speak to the political point, which I think is mentioned too often, too casually, which is childcare is too expensive, healthcare is too expensive, education too expensive.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

The economics of parenthood has become more expensive.

What Now? with Trevor Noah
Eliza Filby: Hard Work Is a Lie, This Is What Rich People Never Tell You

But people had a lot more children in a lot tougher economic times.