Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

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577 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Apr 2026 last heard 22 Apr

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I'll give voice.

Yeah, that felt disrespectful to me, but it's not accusatory.

It's more of helping us mutually understand each other.

And so I say to men who are men of honor,

Do we have a right to say to our wives, you must submit, you must respect me?

Because the minute I do that, then I'm probably not leading in love.

Because the better way to get her to respond is to say, and I said to guys, if your wife's coming across to you disrespectful, why not ask this way?

Honey, that just felt very disrespectful to me.

But did I just come across earlier in an unloving way that triggered the crazy cycle?

Help me understand what I did to trigger this negative reaction.

Help me understand what I did that was unloving.

A true leader, an honorable man is not afraid of asking that question.

And I sometimes say to men, you know, you have enough courage to die for this woman, but do you have enough courage to live with her?

And do you have enough courage to ask that question?

Because that's really the way you need to approach it.

And so the challenge is if she's coming across disrespectfully and if she's got goodwill, she doesn't want to do that.

That's not a turn on to her.

That's not her goal.

She's usually upset, hurting, and she's insecure and she's negative reacting to get your attention to the deeper cry of her heart.

So if you say,

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