Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

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577 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Apr 2026 last heard 22 Apr

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We don't default to positivity.

You know, there's a negative reaction.

And I'll bet it appears to me as a man is disrespectful.

And maybe that's why the Lord has commanded you to put on respect and why God has commanded me to put on love.

Because when you feel unloved, it's natural for you to appear to me as disrespectful.

When I feel disrespected, it's very natural for me to react in ways like withdrawing.

85% of those who withdraw in Stonewall is the male.

appear to you as unloving.

And as I meditated more and more, that's when this crazy cycle emerged.

Without love, she reacts without respect.

Without respect, he reacts without love.

Without love, she reacts without respect.

And this baby starts spinning.

And I always ask our audience at our conferences, have you had a conflict with your spouse recently when the issue didn't seem to be the issue?

And something else was going on.

The issue was real, but it wasn't the root because now you're off onto this other issue.

In most cases, she's probably feeling unloved, right or wrong.

And he's probably feeling disrespected, right or wrong.

And so the question is, how do we get off of that crazy cycle?

And that's been our ministry and mission for all these years, helping couples jump off sooner.

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