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Dr. Emily Morse

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
657 total appearances

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Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

Well, I think part of it is, I hear this mostly from women. They say to me, I can't have casual sex because when I do, I catch feelings. And I would say that's another part of our cultural conditioning.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

You can actually learn, train your body to be receiving pleasure fully and know that it's about your pleasure and be connected to somebody and feel safe with somebody and you don't have to fall in love with them. So I think that's a little bit of rewiring that we can do if we're open to it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

You can actually learn, train your body to be receiving pleasure fully and know that it's about your pleasure and be connected to somebody and feel safe with somebody and you don't have to fall in love with them. So I think that's a little bit of rewiring that we can do if we're open to it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

You can actually learn, train your body to be receiving pleasure fully and know that it's about your pleasure and be connected to somebody and feel safe with somebody and you don't have to fall in love with them. So I think that's a little bit of rewiring that we can do if we're open to it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

Now, that's a little bit of work, but I think that we could learn to with great boundaries and great communication skills, you can probably have great sex with somebody and make it more casual if they're open to it, be more open, say that you're dating other people. or have that, be honest about it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

Now, that's a little bit of work, but I think that we could learn to with great boundaries and great communication skills, you can probably have great sex with somebody and make it more casual if they're open to it, be more open, say that you're dating other people. or have that, be honest about it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

Now, that's a little bit of work, but I think that we could learn to with great boundaries and great communication skills, you can probably have great sex with somebody and make it more casual if they're open to it, be more open, say that you're dating other people. or have that, be honest about it.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

I think today is like, I mean, honestly, in the last 20 years, I think that we're at such a good time right now. There's like apps for this. People are more open. They're talking about being open. But if you just want it to be casual, you know, mention that, be honest that you just want casual. What you're saying, I think what you asked was.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

I think today is like, I mean, honestly, in the last 20 years, I think that we're at such a good time right now. There's like apps for this. People are more open. They're talking about being open. But if you just want it to be casual, you know, mention that, be honest that you just want casual. What you're saying, I think what you asked was.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

I think today is like, I mean, honestly, in the last 20 years, I think that we're at such a good time right now. There's like apps for this. People are more open. They're talking about being open. But if you just want it to be casual, you know, mention that, be honest that you just want casual. What you're saying, I think what you asked was.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

But did you like, what are the, so again, checking the feelings and saying, am I just prescribing the feelings to this person that's making me feel a certain way? Because it might not really be about them. It's that you feel safe with this person. They're willing to collaborate with you. They're willing to, they're holding space for you. They're making you feel safe.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

But did you like, what are the, so again, checking the feelings and saying, am I just prescribing the feelings to this person that's making me feel a certain way? Because it might not really be about them. It's that you feel safe with this person. They're willing to collaborate with you. They're willing to, they're holding space for you. They're making you feel safe.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

But did you like, what are the, so again, checking the feelings and saying, am I just prescribing the feelings to this person that's making me feel a certain way? Because it might not really be about them. It's that you feel safe with this person. They're willing to collaborate with you. They're willing to, they're holding space for you. They're making you feel safe.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

And, you know, there's something about this connection. And I think that there's a lot of learning in there. Like, what is it? About this sexual connection that feels so good. Pay attention. You're going to put that in your self-knowledge bucket. And then when you are searching for a partner, again, that has all the other things that you're looking for, you can be like, this was the thing.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

And, you know, there's something about this connection. And I think that there's a lot of learning in there. Like, what is it? About this sexual connection that feels so good. Pay attention. You're going to put that in your self-knowledge bucket. And then when you are searching for a partner, again, that has all the other things that you're looking for, you can be like, this was the thing.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

And, you know, there's something about this connection. And I think that there's a lot of learning in there. Like, what is it? About this sexual connection that feels so good. Pay attention. You're going to put that in your self-knowledge bucket. And then when you are searching for a partner, again, that has all the other things that you're looking for, you can be like, this was the thing.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

Because a lot of times we don't even remember. We don't even dissect it or think about it. But take this as a note. Like, wow, this person does these things that are allowing me to feel safe and fully expressive. Yeah. I would say it's not about their penis. It's not about their moves. It's not about the way they smell. Like it might be part of it, but usually it's about us.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

Because a lot of times we don't even remember. We don't even dissect it or think about it. But take this as a note. Like, wow, this person does these things that are allowing me to feel safe and fully expressive. Yeah. I would say it's not about their penis. It's not about their moves. It's not about the way they smell. Like it might be part of it, but usually it's about us.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

Because a lot of times we don't even remember. We don't even dissect it or think about it. But take this as a note. Like, wow, this person does these things that are allowing me to feel safe and fully expressive. Yeah. I would say it's not about their penis. It's not about their moves. It's not about the way they smell. Like it might be part of it, but usually it's about us.

Healing + Human Potential
How to Break Sexual Shame & Reclaim Your Desire with Sex with Emily | EP 85

So how they're making us feel and that's transferable.