Dr. Emily Morse

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Exactly. I understand why people say I don't want to schedule sex, because, again, that goes against everything we've told about sex, that if you have to talk... First of all, there are these notions that if you talk about sex, it means... that you're doomed, that you should be mind readers and you should figure it out. I'm telling you now that doesn't happen.

Exactly. I understand why people say I don't want to schedule sex, because, again, that goes against everything we've told about sex, that if you have to talk... First of all, there are these notions that if you talk about sex, it means... that you're doomed, that you should be mind readers and you should figure it out. I'm telling you now that doesn't happen.

Exactly. I understand why people say I don't want to schedule sex, because, again, that goes against everything we've told about sex, that if you have to talk... First of all, there are these notions that if you talk about sex, it means... that you're doomed, that you should be mind readers and you should figure it out. I'm telling you now that doesn't happen.

But when you do schedule sex and you're like, okay, I know that Saturday night is the best night for us to have sex. I'm not going to try to do it on Wednesday or Thursday when it's not going to be ideal, but we know that it's Saturday. Then we know how to reverse engineer it and say, these are all the things that need to be in place for us to be ready to

But when you do schedule sex and you're like, okay, I know that Saturday night is the best night for us to have sex. I'm not going to try to do it on Wednesday or Thursday when it's not going to be ideal, but we know that it's Saturday. Then we know how to reverse engineer it and say, these are all the things that need to be in place for us to be ready to

But when you do schedule sex and you're like, okay, I know that Saturday night is the best night for us to have sex. I'm not going to try to do it on Wednesday or Thursday when it's not going to be ideal, but we know that it's Saturday. Then we know how to reverse engineer it and say, these are all the things that need to be in place for us to be ready to

be intimate that night, whether it's getting a babysitter for the kids, it's getting myself into the mindset to be ready for sex. And also, you know, again, having these conversations with our partners about sex that's ongoing. It's not a one-time conversation. It's not a conversation that you have when there's only a problem.

be intimate that night, whether it's getting a babysitter for the kids, it's getting myself into the mindset to be ready for sex. And also, you know, again, having these conversations with our partners about sex that's ongoing. It's not a one-time conversation. It's not a conversation that you have when there's only a problem.

be intimate that night, whether it's getting a babysitter for the kids, it's getting myself into the mindset to be ready for sex. And also, you know, again, having these conversations with our partners about sex that's ongoing. It's not a one-time conversation. It's not a conversation that you have when there's only a problem.

In fact, I encourage everybody to today have that conversation with your partner and say, you know what? I've just learned, I'm listening to Drew's podcast, and I learned today that actually couples who talk about sex have better sex. I realize that it's something that maybe we've never done before, but we can also, in this interview, kind of lay out how people can do that.

In fact, I encourage everybody to today have that conversation with your partner and say, you know what? I've just learned, I'm listening to Drew's podcast, and I learned today that actually couples who talk about sex have better sex. I realize that it's something that maybe we've never done before, but we can also, in this interview, kind of lay out how people can do that.

In fact, I encourage everybody to today have that conversation with your partner and say, you know what? I've just learned, I'm listening to Drew's podcast, and I learned today that actually couples who talk about sex have better sex. I realize that it's something that maybe we've never done before, but we can also, in this interview, kind of lay out how people can do that.

But I want people to find out if they're with a partner, hopefully they are with a partner who has a growth mindset around sex and realizes that this is something that we're going to have to work on our intimacy, commit to a plan, and stick with it and honor each other's desires, wants, and needs to make the sex really satisfying and hot.

But I want people to find out if they're with a partner, hopefully they are with a partner who has a growth mindset around sex and realizes that this is something that we're going to have to work on our intimacy, commit to a plan, and stick with it and honor each other's desires, wants, and needs to make the sex really satisfying and hot.

But I want people to find out if they're with a partner, hopefully they are with a partner who has a growth mindset around sex and realizes that this is something that we're going to have to work on our intimacy, commit to a plan, and stick with it and honor each other's desires, wants, and needs to make the sex really satisfying and hot.

Exactly. No, exactly. And I love that you're saying that. So we're talking about the high desire, the low desire. One partner is going to want to and the other isn't. Absolutely. But I also want to note that... Usually it's one partner thinks that they have to do everything. Like they're the one that's driving the conversation and the one that has to do all the heavy lifting.

Exactly. No, exactly. And I love that you're saying that. So we're talking about the high desire, the low desire. One partner is going to want to and the other isn't. Absolutely. But I also want to note that... Usually it's one partner thinks that they have to do everything. Like they're the one that's driving the conversation and the one that has to do all the heavy lifting.

Exactly. No, exactly. And I love that you're saying that. So we're talking about the high desire, the low desire. One partner is going to want to and the other isn't. Absolutely. But I also want to note that... Usually it's one partner thinks that they have to do everything. Like they're the one that's driving the conversation and the one that has to do all the heavy lifting.