Dr. Eric Bender
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I'm curious what you think about that, hearing that other people might've reacted differently.
So wanting to understand more about their perspective, if they go on believing it's harmful, that would be a pattern I could point out.
So if they continue to believe it's harmful and it's actually not, I would say,
It seems like it's really hard for you to see this differently.
I wonder what that's doing for you because when people get stuck on the same idea and keep doing the same thing again and again, they're getting something out of it that they might not be aware of psychologically.
I'm curious what you get from this or what do you feel when this is considered still terrible, when maybe other people wouldn't see it that way.
Interesting.
What do they do with that fame?
That's what I want to know.
So I feel like I've had- Let's say they do good things.
I think it can, but I can only speak from my experience.
I've had some degree of fame doing the things that I've done.
And what I find is if somebody's coming to me because they've seen me in a video, like I want you to be my doctor-
Why me?
Why not some doctor close to you?
What is it about me?
Now, maybe they say, oh, I like the way you interact with people.
Sure.
But if someone's just starting to take on more and more people and more and more patients just to make a lot of money, I think that can be problematic.
Not that I have an issue with money, but are the patients the primary thoughtful concern you have?