Dr. Harville Hendrix

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468 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 7 Jul

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Not quite.

Let me give you an example.

We wrote a book called Receiving Love.

And I had to learn that this couple, they were not even a neurotic couple.

They were, you know, like they had really deep childhood needs to work through before they could even get to their relational needs.

They owned a store.

It was a I don't know what store where they sold paper and pencils and all that sort of stuff.

And it wasn't a big store, so they were the primary people in it.

I think she would come to work at like 9 o'clock, would leave at 3 to go home and make dinner.

He would have one or two other staff people managing that.

Then he would come home at 6 o'clock to eat dinner.

And so their pattern was, I go to work with you at 9, I leave at 3, you stay till 6.

I go home at 3 to cook dinner, you come home, and then we have dinner.

And so then now they're in the office with me and what is the complaint?

And she said, well, you never thanked me for fixing dinner.

Well, this is not a pathological complaint.

This is, I work with you all day.

I go home and do another job and you come home.

And he said to her, well, I don't think people should get compliments for what their job is.

That's what your job is in our relationship.

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