Dr. Harville Hendrix

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468 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 7 Jul

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And we had to talk long enough until we felt safe enough in the conversation for the defenses to drop.

And I think that is non-negotiable, that you have to be safe enough with the other person to be the real you.

And now Helen and I, we don't have any struggle.

We walk around playing and kidding.

I don't have a sense of a need.

She doesn't have a sense of a need.

We may have a want, like I'd like to go for a walk or I'd like to go out to dinner or I'd like to have pizza for dinner.

But we don't have needs.

The needs were cut off with the gratitude.

And so all that's left is just our diversity and our difference, which becomes negotiable.

We can say, oh, so you want X?

Like the bedroom at the temperature every night is a conversation.

But it's a fun conversation.

I like that.

If this heater would just work for us better.

Well, thank you.

I'm so glad that you asked me.

I never have an idea of being interviewed by you.

But just so I met you at TED and it's like I met Simon Sinek, the guy that I admire so much.

Oh, you're too kind.

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