Dr. Hilary Goldsher

Some people literally have nowhere to go. Where am I going?

Yes, that's right. That's right. Break you down with your confidence and your sense of agency and mastery and feel unable to do anything by telling victims that they're stupid or incapable and beating them down day after day after day so that even if the fact pattern isn't true, the woman is absolutely capable. She internalizes that she's not. So you're right. Logistics often go together.

Yes, that's right. That's right. Break you down with your confidence and your sense of agency and mastery and feel unable to do anything by telling victims that they're stupid or incapable and beating them down day after day after day so that even if the fact pattern isn't true, the woman is absolutely capable. She internalizes that she's not. So you're right. Logistics often go together.

Yes, that's right. That's right. Break you down with your confidence and your sense of agency and mastery and feel unable to do anything by telling victims that they're stupid or incapable and beating them down day after day after day so that even if the fact pattern isn't true, the woman is absolutely capable. She internalizes that she's not. So you're right. Logistics often go together.

I have nowhere to go. I have no ability to make money and intersects with that first tenant, which is shame. If I, because people listening might say, well, like, go to your best friend, go to your mom, go to your pastor, go to your therapist, that shame piece. I'm so ashamed for how badly I feel about myself for allowing myself to be in this position.

I have nowhere to go. I have no ability to make money and intersects with that first tenant, which is shame. If I, because people listening might say, well, like, go to your best friend, go to your mom, go to your pastor, go to your therapist, that shame piece. I'm so ashamed for how badly I feel about myself for allowing myself to be in this position.

I have nowhere to go. I have no ability to make money and intersects with that first tenant, which is shame. If I, because people listening might say, well, like, go to your best friend, go to your mom, go to your pastor, go to your therapist, that shame piece. I'm so ashamed for how badly I feel about myself for allowing myself to be in this position.

My fight or flight system has been triggered. I'm paralyzed. I can't do anything.

My fight or flight system has been triggered. I'm paralyzed. I can't do anything.

My fight or flight system has been triggered. I'm paralyzed. I can't do anything.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Oh, Aubrey, I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I'm having a visceral reaction to that experience.

Oh, Aubrey, I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I'm having a visceral reaction to that experience.

Oh, Aubrey, I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I'm having a visceral reaction to that experience.

I do too. And if you don't mind, I'll use your experience to elucidate what we're talking about, which is so in that moment, the intersection of factors, right? You feel choiceless, resourceless. Your body's in fight or flight. You're completely paralyzed.

I do too. And if you don't mind, I'll use your experience to elucidate what we're talking about, which is so in that moment, the intersection of factors, right? You feel choiceless, resourceless. Your body's in fight or flight. You're completely paralyzed.

I do too. And if you don't mind, I'll use your experience to elucidate what we're talking about, which is so in that moment, the intersection of factors, right? You feel choiceless, resourceless. Your body's in fight or flight. You're completely paralyzed.

You may even have what I alluded to before, which is a severe response collapse, which is actually a phenomenon where you basically go into a primitive state, a completely regressed state where you cannot- On the floor.