Dr. Jeff Spencer
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard Jun 2025
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And you may actually unfortunately talk yourself into it one step before you have your breakthrough. But if we think that there's not supposed to be hard because it means that there's something wrong with us, that we couldn't make right decisions, or we chose it on the other side, that's complete mythology.
But we wouldn't know that unless we had someone that really knew what the process was, because
our human mindset, those things that naturally occur to us to be true, it is not always our best friend because it does oftentimes talk us into doing things based upon what we presume it to be when it's actually not, that discredits us, that actually talks ourselves out of performing and playing the game that we're capable of. He was just in those two things. Yeah.
Well, it's actually, it's to learn behavior. And all of the prolific achievers of history have always taught us what to do when, if we're a good observer of what that is. And many times what they're suggesting is contrarian to pop culture. So for example, in pop culture, it's like, well, just get started, fail fast. Well, I'm not so sure you want to do that.
I think there needs to be a basis of readiness that's appropriate. that reduces the risk of a premature stall because, I mean, if you fail too fast too early, you may think you're not capable of doing it. It's just that you were too quick to make a judgment on something that wasn't true.
So I really feel like there's so much mythology that surrounds the conversation of really how is it that we get from concept of greatness and manifestation to the actual three-dimensional manifestation of what's actually possible. And so the champion's golden rule is do the homework and the test is easy, meaning that first you prepare and then you perform.
A lot of people think, most people are dismal about their preparation. They start way too fast, way too unprepared. That sets themselves up for unnecessary failure or lack of confidence in self. So I feel first and foremost, we have to recognize the fact that Anytime we have an ambition of any sort, the first thing you always want to make sure that you do is prepare well. Don't kid yourself.
Make sure that the way that I see it, what history has revealed, is that there's five important steps that we should go through to make sure that we're properly prepared before we even start pursuing the goal, which would be the second half of that.
You know, it's again, that's part of the mythology of this. I that surround our decision-making in terms of achievement. I mean, I think it's one of the most important disservices ever to listen to some of the advice out there because it can't possibly take you from where you are to where you want to get to. Just don't say it.
No, I mean, first off, they both go hand in hand. They're both two separate halves that can join. If you want to be a prolific achiever and consistently achieve your highest goals, you absolutely have to follow that rule. Because if you cannot follow that rule, then just prepare yourself to take 10 times as long to get to where you want to get to if you get there at all.
It just isn't going to happen.
When you have that alignment, then you have a unification self as you as an entity that has a level of belief and confidence that you absolutely must have to be able to be confident in pursuing the goals that are in front of you. And if you do not have that alignment, you're always going to be second guessing yourself.
And if you're second guessing yourself, you're going to be reluctant to make decisions promptly and accurately. You're going to shy away from going all in when you need to go all in. You're not gonna be conveying to other people a presence of being where they believe that you're worthy of following or supporting to manifest your bigger future.
None of that is gonna happen because that is the byproduct of making sure that we have the most important goal of all time. It's not the smart goal. It's not the big, hairy, audacious goal. It's do we have the right goal?
And when we do have the right goal, and there's a very specific criteria that I use with my clients that's very vigorous that allows us to look at, number one, is this the right goal for me at this time? Yes or no. If it's not, then you maybe don't want to pursue it because the timing may not be correct. So I just cannot...
emphasize enough the importance of making sure that you select the right goal. Because when you select the right goal and you have that unification of mind, body, and soul, it gives you what I call the trademark word gocus. Kind of a funny word, but gocus means goal focus, meaning that you have the ability to focus on the things that must go right to move your goal forward.
ascension from where you are to where you want to get to. There must be daily progress through that level of focus. But then you must also have a peripheral awareness of what's happening around you because you may be gifted with a better idea to adjust the trajectory of your goal to a bigger, better
that can be gifted to your consciousness, but if you're too hyper-focused on the action steps, you may miss that. And also in the periphery, this is where blind sides start to form that could wipe us off the face of the earth or create an untimely stall that may end up in our inability to manifest the goal that we're in pursuit of.
So there has to be this continuous unique blend of goal-focused to get stuff done with a simultaneous peripheral awareness of better options and risks that we should be avoiding.
Yeah, well, a right goal is a goal that aligns the mind, body, and soul because it exposes itself to a variety of different questions that should be asked and answered in the affirmative if it's the right goal to pursue. There's all sorts of smart goals that you shouldn't be pursuing, actually. So the R in right stands for relevant.
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