Dr. John Deloney

That ship has sailed out to harbor. We are now creating a life that I'm going to have to inhabit because you're going to be gone.

yeah and that looks like making sure i got a home with four walls on it and i can pay bills right and some of it you're going to i i i remember sitting with um um somebody that i care about deeply and i was helping them and their house was full of stuff and i was trying to help them throw that throw it away this is several years ago and i just finally stopped and looked at him and said i need you to hear me say this

yeah and that looks like making sure i got a home with four walls on it and i can pay bills right and some of it you're going to i i i remember sitting with um um somebody that i care about deeply and i was helping them and their house was full of stuff and i was trying to help them throw that throw it away this is several years ago and i just finally stopped and looked at him and said i need you to hear me say this

yeah and that looks like making sure i got a home with four walls on it and i can pay bills right and some of it you're going to i i i remember sitting with um um somebody that i care about deeply and i was helping them and their house was full of stuff and i was trying to help them throw that throw it away this is several years ago and i just finally stopped and looked at him and said i need you to hear me say this

When you die, I'm going to throw all of this away. I can do it now, or I can do it when you're gone. And there was a long, long pause, and they said, you're going to have to do it when I'm gone. And I said, okay, I'm moving on with my day. I'm not going to spend another second here. I've already made that choice, but I'm not going to fight that in this moment. See what I'm saying?

When you die, I'm going to throw all of this away. I can do it now, or I can do it when you're gone. And there was a long, long pause, and they said, you're going to have to do it when I'm gone. And I said, okay, I'm moving on with my day. I'm not going to spend another second here. I've already made that choice, but I'm not going to fight that in this moment. See what I'm saying?

When you die, I'm going to throw all of this away. I can do it now, or I can do it when you're gone. And there was a long, long pause, and they said, you're going to have to do it when I'm gone. And I said, okay, I'm moving on with my day. I'm not going to spend another second here. I've already made that choice, but I'm not going to fight that in this moment. See what I'm saying?

Right. So here's what we're doing. We're reverse engineering this thing for the four walls. I hate to live like this, but this is the clock you've been given. I want to go 18 months and start working backwards. What does life look like? And you don't have to do a roof and siding and gutter. You don't have to do all that at the same time. We're going to price each one of those things out.

Right. So here's what we're doing. We're reverse engineering this thing for the four walls. I hate to live like this, but this is the clock you've been given. I want to go 18 months and start working backwards. What does life look like? And you don't have to do a roof and siding and gutter. You don't have to do all that at the same time. We're going to price each one of those things out.

Right. So here's what we're doing. We're reverse engineering this thing for the four walls. I hate to live like this, but this is the clock you've been given. I want to go 18 months and start working backwards. What does life look like? And you don't have to do a roof and siding and gutter. You don't have to do all that at the same time. We're going to price each one of those things out.

These things that we have to do so we can keep our house. These things that we have to do so we have transportation. You're going to have to have a job if you don't have any retirement.

These things that we have to do so we can keep our house. These things that we have to do so we have transportation. You're going to have to have a job if you don't have any retirement.

These things that we have to do so we can keep our house. These things that we have to do so we have transportation. You're going to have to have a job if you don't have any retirement.

So you put some givens in there of which you control all of them.

So you put some givens in there of which you control all of them.

So you put some givens in there of which you control all of them.

But let me put it this way. She's acting like an 18 year old. And I wouldn't begrudge her a second because she's acting exactly developmentally appropriate. Dave just nailed it. You have a husband problem.

But let me put it this way. She's acting like an 18 year old. And I wouldn't begrudge her a second because she's acting exactly developmentally appropriate. Dave just nailed it. You have a husband problem.

But let me put it this way. She's acting like an 18 year old. And I wouldn't begrudge her a second because she's acting exactly developmentally appropriate. Dave just nailed it. You have a husband problem.

No, you don't. Why are you hesitant?