Dr. John Deloney

Dude, every alarm I have is going off right now. Whether it's for a hotel room, whether it's for alcohol, whether it's for drugs, I think y'all got a mess on your hands.

I've just done this for long enough now, and Dave's done it for way longer than me. When people start pulling cash out and the first thing when their partner says, when their husband or wife says, hey, we agreed on this thing. What about this money? And the first question, the first response is you back off. It shouldn't even apply to you. You don't have any say in this? Ooh, buddy.

I've just done this for long enough now, and Dave's done it for way longer than me. When people start pulling cash out and the first thing when their partner says, when their husband or wife says, hey, we agreed on this thing. What about this money? And the first question, the first response is you back off. It shouldn't even apply to you. You don't have any say in this? Ooh, buddy.

I've just done this for long enough now, and Dave's done it for way longer than me. When people start pulling cash out and the first thing when their partner says, when their husband or wife says, hey, we agreed on this thing. What about this money? And the first question, the first response is you back off. It shouldn't even apply to you. You don't have any say in this? Ooh, buddy.

And let me give you another picture. I have gone before a hunting trip to a place in town to buy camouflage gear. It's obnoxious. My wife calls it my outfits. And I have told her I'm going to go spend a ton of money in here. And it was in the budget. And on the way home, I said, hey. Please don't look. It's not good. It's embarrassing how much I just spent on clothes, right? That's the one thing.

And let me give you another picture. I have gone before a hunting trip to a place in town to buy camouflage gear. It's obnoxious. My wife calls it my outfits. And I have told her I'm going to go spend a ton of money in here. And it was in the budget. And on the way home, I said, hey. Please don't look. It's not good. It's embarrassing how much I just spent on clothes, right? That's the one thing.

And let me give you another picture. I have gone before a hunting trip to a place in town to buy camouflage gear. It's obnoxious. My wife calls it my outfits. And I have told her I'm going to go spend a ton of money in here. And it was in the budget. And on the way home, I said, hey. Please don't look. It's not good. It's embarrassing how much I just spent on clothes, right? That's the one thing.

And we sit down and she goes, oh, my gosh. And she laughs and I laugh and she pokes fun at me for a couple of months.

And we sit down and she goes, oh, my gosh. And she laughs and I laugh and she pokes fun at me for a couple of months.

And we sit down and she goes, oh, my gosh. And she laughs and I laugh and she pokes fun at me for a couple of months.

A couple of years. But we had agreed upon it.

A couple of years. But we had agreed upon it.

A couple of years. But we had agreed upon it.

And it's not an overdraft. No, you hear the difference? Yeah, and I had the money. That's the other difference.

And it's not an overdraft. No, you hear the difference? Yeah, and I had the money. That's the other difference.

And it's not an overdraft. No, you hear the difference? Yeah, and I had the money. That's the other difference.

Okay. I'm just telling you right now, this is that moment to turn all the lights on, turn the music off, all the little games y'all play, all the avoiding of the hard conversations. I'm worried about her health right now. Okay. That's the behavior of somebody who's struggling. Where else is she doing this? This is not just isolated to money. Where else is she hiding from you?

Okay. I'm just telling you right now, this is that moment to turn all the lights on, turn the music off, all the little games y'all play, all the avoiding of the hard conversations. I'm worried about her health right now. Okay. That's the behavior of somebody who's struggling. Where else is she doing this? This is not just isolated to money. Where else is she hiding from you?

Okay. I'm just telling you right now, this is that moment to turn all the lights on, turn the music off, all the little games y'all play, all the avoiding of the hard conversations. I'm worried about her health right now. Okay. That's the behavior of somebody who's struggling. Where else is she doing this? This is not just isolated to money. Where else is she hiding from you?

No, I mean, is she late from work? Yeah. Does she flip her phone over every time you come in? Has she changed her passcodes on social media? Like, you get what I'm saying? Where else is this showing up?