Dr. John Deloney

She buys concert t-shirts and whatever.

And I know she's playing, but...

You get to do whatever you want with your money.

And that means if you're going to take that responsibility, you have to take responsibility for being honest about what your plans are with your money before you pass away.

And that means you have to be responsible for your daughter getting mad at you and not liking you.

Yes.

Otherwise, your son, who I'm assuming is responsible, gets all the blowback here.

Mom's always treated you different.

And so your refusal to have this hard conversation about what you're doing with the money and how you're structuring it.

will like make in concrete that your son and daughter will never have a relationship either.

Don't do that to anybody.

And so if you're gonna have the courage to say, this is my money, I'm gonna spend it how I want to, great, I love that.

And that means have the courage to do the relational hard thing, which is tell the truth.

I like the idea of saying, here's what I want this money to go to.

And if you want to put it all into trust and say, I'll pay off both of your mortgages.

I will put this in accounts for your kids' college, for my grandkids' college.

I like that.

But again, it's your money.

Do what you want to do with it.

For college?