Dr. John Deloney

And also, by the way, on Friday night when he says, let's just stay in and he married you because you'll go, no, we're going dancing and we're going to go horseback riding first. And then we're going to jump out of a plane. That's why I married you. Fair?

That's probably fair. Your body's probably tired by Friday night, yeah.

That's probably fair. Your body's probably tired by Friday night, yeah.

That's probably fair. Your body's probably tired by Friday night, yeah.

Okay.

Okay.

Okay.

You may come in and be like, all right, I got 14 job opportunities. I heard Dan's hiring over there. And if he does that, you know who else did that to him?

You may come in and be like, all right, I got 14 job opportunities. I heard Dan's hiring over there. And if he does that, you know who else did that to him?

You may come in and be like, all right, I got 14 job opportunities. I heard Dan's hiring over there. And if he does that, you know who else did that to him?

I know. You know who did that to him? His mom. His mom did that. Yeah. And so let's don't be mom, but let's do have this. Can we agree on a dollar amount that we have to have in this house for us to A, survive, and B, pay off this debt? Yeah, I can agree to that. All right. I'm earning $3,000 of that. Then the other $3,000 you're on board for.

I know. You know who did that to him? His mom. His mom did that. Yeah. And so let's don't be mom, but let's do have this. Can we agree on a dollar amount that we have to have in this house for us to A, survive, and B, pay off this debt? Yeah, I can agree to that. All right. I'm earning $3,000 of that. Then the other $3,000 you're on board for.

I know. You know who did that to him? His mom. His mom did that. Yeah. And so let's don't be mom, but let's do have this. Can we agree on a dollar amount that we have to have in this house for us to A, survive, and B, pay off this debt? Yeah, I can agree to that. All right. I'm earning $3,000 of that. Then the other $3,000 you're on board for.

And that's our covenant, and that's our commitment, and that's our spit shake, and that's our, I swear. And it might be a quote-unquote dead-end job, but if it's helping your family move forward, it's not dead-end.

And that's our covenant, and that's our commitment, and that's our spit shake, and that's our, I swear. And it might be a quote-unquote dead-end job, but if it's helping your family move forward, it's not dead-end.

And that's our covenant, and that's our commitment, and that's our spit shake, and that's our, I swear. And it might be a quote-unquote dead-end job, but if it's helping your family move forward, it's not dead-end.

That's cool. It's not forever, but... But if it's serving a purpose, then let's honor the integrity of work and let's go find something else. But he's got to feel that sense and that pull. And that sense and that pull is not going to come from you harassing him and beating him down. It's also not going to come from you throwing 40 different options and ideas.

That's cool. It's not forever, but... But if it's serving a purpose, then let's honor the integrity of work and let's go find something else. But he's got to feel that sense and that pull. And that sense and that pull is not going to come from you harassing him and beating him down. It's also not going to come from you throwing 40 different options and ideas.

That's cool. It's not forever, but... But if it's serving a purpose, then let's honor the integrity of work and let's go find something else. But he's got to feel that sense and that pull. And that sense and that pull is not going to come from you harassing him and beating him down. It's also not going to come from you throwing 40 different options and ideas.

And that's just like his mom saying, well, you wear this and fix that. Fix your hair. Why are you doing that? Have you brushed your teeth yet? He doesn't need that either. And at the other side, he needs a goal and he needs his wife to look across the table and say, I'm trusting you to go get your $3,000 this month.