Dr. John Deloney
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That was getting the shit kicked out of you and then turning that around, realizing, oh, wow, I wasn't as smart as I thought. This was difficult. And then you also said that grit, determination, some kind of resilience is one of the traits that you would like to give to somebody. I think a lot of the time, I'd be interested to know whether...
That was getting the shit kicked out of you and then turning that around, realizing, oh, wow, I wasn't as smart as I thought. This was difficult. And then you also said that grit, determination, some kind of resilience is one of the traits that you would like to give to somebody. I think a lot of the time, I'd be interested to know whether...
That was getting the shit kicked out of you and then turning that around, realizing, oh, wow, I wasn't as smart as I thought. This was difficult. And then you also said that grit, determination, some kind of resilience is one of the traits that you would like to give to somebody. I think a lot of the time, I'd be interested to know whether...
How much hope you had during that moment while you were during the real financial strife? Because in retrospect, it's very easy to weave a narrative together of this is why I needed to learn this thing. And look, in the grand arc of my life, I have come into land with much more insight and wisdom. And I can see that for what it was.
How much hope you had during that moment while you were during the real financial strife? Because in retrospect, it's very easy to weave a narrative together of this is why I needed to learn this thing. And look, in the grand arc of my life, I have come into land with much more insight and wisdom. And I can see that for what it was.
How much hope you had during that moment while you were during the real financial strife? Because in retrospect, it's very easy to weave a narrative together of this is why I needed to learn this thing. And look, in the grand arc of my life, I have come into land with much more insight and wisdom. And I can see that for what it was.
This was somebody that was too flashed, that was over leveraged, that was using debt in a way that wasn't efficient. And I paid the price and this is how I've come out of it. But in my experience, during that process, it doesn't feel like that at all. There's no grander purpose to this thing. You're just wallowing in uncertainty and fear and confusion and self-doubt and criticism and... pay.
This was somebody that was too flashed, that was over leveraged, that was using debt in a way that wasn't efficient. And I paid the price and this is how I've come out of it. But in my experience, during that process, it doesn't feel like that at all. There's no grander purpose to this thing. You're just wallowing in uncertainty and fear and confusion and self-doubt and criticism and... pay.
This was somebody that was too flashed, that was over leveraged, that was using debt in a way that wasn't efficient. And I paid the price and this is how I've come out of it. But in my experience, during that process, it doesn't feel like that at all. There's no grander purpose to this thing. You're just wallowing in uncertainty and fear and confusion and self-doubt and criticism and... pay.
So I just want to kind of get a sense, let's say that somebody, hopefully not bankruptcy for a million dollars, tuned up to an amount of a million dollars, but somebody's going through a bit of a rough time and you're like, look, This is a way to try and reframe that difficulty right now psychologically so that you can start to see things with a little bit more equanimity.
So I just want to kind of get a sense, let's say that somebody, hopefully not bankruptcy for a million dollars, tuned up to an amount of a million dollars, but somebody's going through a bit of a rough time and you're like, look, This is a way to try and reframe that difficulty right now psychologically so that you can start to see things with a little bit more equanimity.
So I just want to kind of get a sense, let's say that somebody, hopefully not bankruptcy for a million dollars, tuned up to an amount of a million dollars, but somebody's going through a bit of a rough time and you're like, look, This is a way to try and reframe that difficulty right now psychologically so that you can start to see things with a little bit more equanimity.
Now, I wonder how much you were capable of doing that at the time and how much this is you retrospectively realizing that it was good for you.
Now, I wonder how much you were capable of doing that at the time and how much this is you retrospectively realizing that it was good for you.
Now, I wonder how much you were capable of doing that at the time and how much this is you retrospectively realizing that it was good for you.
It's a very antagonistic relationship with God that you've got. It seems passive aggressive sometimes. It seems very.
It's a very antagonistic relationship with God that you've got. It seems passive aggressive sometimes. It seems very.
It's a very antagonistic relationship with God that you've got. It seems passive aggressive sometimes. It seems very.
You railed and you were mad and you were sad. I think it's just, I have this sense that we have a skewed perspective of the trajectory of people coming back from rock bottom or from pullbacks that they've had in life and errors and failures. Because most people see those stories portrayed through movies. And the Rocky montage is three and a half minutes. Right.
You railed and you were mad and you were sad. I think it's just, I have this sense that we have a skewed perspective of the trajectory of people coming back from rock bottom or from pullbacks that they've had in life and errors and failures. Because most people see those stories portrayed through movies. And the Rocky montage is three and a half minutes. Right.