Dr. John Deloney

I want you to have a little bit of time just with Chris. And I want you to actually sit down and be honest with yourself. And it's going to be tough because you're emotional. You feel the pain. You love this person. You care about this person. You had, here's the hardest part. You had plans with this person, right? You started creating pictures for tomorrow. And this person was in those pictures.

And then it was revealed. This person doesn't want that same life that you want. And then this person just bailed on you when you said, Hey, I want to sit down and have this conversation. And so just because something hurts doesn't mean it's not the right move. But I want you to be honest with yourself.

And then it was revealed. This person doesn't want that same life that you want. And then this person just bailed on you when you said, Hey, I want to sit down and have this conversation. And so just because something hurts doesn't mean it's not the right move. But I want you to be honest with yourself.

And then it was revealed. This person doesn't want that same life that you want. And then this person just bailed on you when you said, Hey, I want to sit down and have this conversation. And so just because something hurts doesn't mean it's not the right move. But I want you to be honest with yourself.

And by the way, me and my wife broke up three or four, I don't know, five times when we were dating, so that doesn't mean it's over either.

And by the way, me and my wife broke up three or four, I don't know, five times when we were dating, so that doesn't mean it's over either.

And by the way, me and my wife broke up three or four, I don't know, five times when we were dating, so that doesn't mean it's over either.

I think the deeper question is, what's this life we're building together? What's it going to look like? And is she a kind of person you want to build a life with? And I think you having the courage to be honest and say, so far, no. Because when the going gets hard, you kind of just don't want to do anything.

I think the deeper question is, what's this life we're building together? What's it going to look like? And is she a kind of person you want to build a life with? And I think you having the courage to be honest and say, so far, no. Because when the going gets hard, you kind of just don't want to do anything.

I think the deeper question is, what's this life we're building together? What's it going to look like? And is she a kind of person you want to build a life with? And I think you having the courage to be honest and say, so far, no. Because when the going gets hard, you kind of just don't want to do anything.

And she might say, I want someone that's just going to take care of me and do whatever I want, whenever I want it. And I want to be a princess. And you can say, amazing. It's not going to be my, I don't want to ride or die like that. And you get to choose, you both get to choose that. And that may mean that both of you end up heartbroken for a season. Yeah, sounds like that's it.

And she might say, I want someone that's just going to take care of me and do whatever I want, whenever I want it. And I want to be a princess. And you can say, amazing. It's not going to be my, I don't want to ride or die like that. And you get to choose, you both get to choose that. And that may mean that both of you end up heartbroken for a season. Yeah, sounds like that's it.

And she might say, I want someone that's just going to take care of me and do whatever I want, whenever I want it. And I want to be a princess. And you can say, amazing. It's not going to be my, I don't want to ride or die like that. And you get to choose, you both get to choose that. And that may mean that both of you end up heartbroken for a season. Yeah, sounds like that's it.

But I hate it for you. Well, that's okay. Can I tell you, most people wouldn't have the courage to do what you did.

But I hate it for you. Well, that's okay. Can I tell you, most people wouldn't have the courage to do what you did.

But I hate it for you. Well, that's okay. Can I tell you, most people wouldn't have the courage to do what you did.

to sit down and say, hey, here's what we agreed on. Here's what I want. Are you still in? And she said, no. Most people go ahead and get married, and they figure this out, and you're five or six or seven with two kids when they've had enough.

to sit down and say, hey, here's what we agreed on. Here's what I want. Are you still in? And she said, no. Most people go ahead and get married, and they figure this out, and you're five or six or seven with two kids when they've had enough.

to sit down and say, hey, here's what we agreed on. Here's what I want. Are you still in? And she said, no. Most people go ahead and get married, and they figure this out, and you're five or six or seven with two kids when they've had enough.

But that doesn't make your pain today feel any better. I'm sorry, man. I hate it for you. That's all right. I hate it for you. Can I give you one homework assignment? Sure. How old are you again? 26, you say? 26. I want you tonight by yourself, no alcohol, nothing. I want you to write a letter to 30-year-old Chris. Okay? Okay.