Dr. John Delony

And your jet fuel is not self-loathing, not hate.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So I want to challenge you to, A, you're doing the work to begin to understand it, okay?

But I want you to commit.

And I know what I'm asking you is nuts because you're calling saying, I'm struggling with the commitment part.

And I'm saying, all right, I want you to commit to something.

And I know that's hard, okay?

And I'm risking...

piling on yet another thing in your wheelbarrow of i'm unlovable i don't have any worth i just haven't been found out yet my boys haven't fully found out my wife hasn't found out yet my business is starting to kind of figure it out my clients haven't figured it out yet but i know the truth and so all of this begins with you challenging what if you're wrong on that chief story

What if you're a pretty great husband?

And what if you got, you got room to grow like we all do, but what if you're a good dad?

And what if you're in a funk professionally and you need to shake the snow globe a little bit, but the work you do is actually good.

And I'm never, ever going to give somebody the opportunity to say that guy's not reliable.

Right.

Right.

That comes from changing the story.

But I want you to take action, and you'll get to the understanding down the road, but I want you to take action.

Are you in?

Yes, I'm in.