Dr. John Delony

This isn't his fault.

He's not here.

He didn't choose to be here.

You did.

Correct.

Right?

And so we're going to honor the bloody hell out of this kid.

And I'm going to seek one connection point in the morning.

I am going to seek to be the calm presence in my home.

I'm going to make peace with my job, but I'm working like crazy because then I got two kids and I live in Brooklyn.

We don't have any money.

When a kid feels peace in their home, they have a chance for their nervous system to be at peace.

Do you realize that your whole house is spinning on the top that is your three-year-old?

He can't carry the weight.

He's three.

Like if his dad is so reactive that he's waiting to see what he does or says next, he can't possibly win that engagement.

And here's what will happen.

He'll learn quickly that it's his job to make sure dad's not in a bad mood.

And he'll either bury himself trying to make you happy or he'll go to war with you so he can finally be seen in any shape, form or fashion he can be seen in.

Okay.