Dr. John Delony

By the way, he's taking his cues of emotional volatility from his dad.

He's just mirroring it back to you, which is what makes it so frustrating.

You get what I'm saying?

Yeah.

Like waking up every day like, I'm going to be the best dad in the world.

Dude, no man can live up to that.

And here's why.

That's a moving finish line.

You can never reach that finish line.

Because you always could have made more money, sent him to a better school, been more supportive, shown up at more things.

That's what's got our culture into the mess it's in right now.

You're turning being a father into some sort of stage performance.

That's it.

And you are because it's an impossible.

It's never meant to be on a stage.

A father, your kid, your kids are going to watch you and your son is going to absorb the tension in your home.

And if he feels dad is pissed off at his job, pissed off that he, I'm getting a sense.

Was this, was he a planned pregnancy or no?

For all that is holy, do not make that kid carry the weight of that.

Correct.