Dr. John Duffy

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736 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Oct 2019 last heard Jan 2025

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 177a: Dr. John Duffy on Parenting the New Teen in the Age of Anxiety · 24 Jan 2025 podcast

And this is hard for parents.

I recognize this to fail and to see what that's like and to see what they do in the wake of failure.

And and sometimes that's I think most of us have needed that moment where it was like, oh, this one's so much worse than I thought.

I'm not going to let this happen again.

This that feeling of, boy, that went poorly and that's on me.

We only need that once or twice in life, I think, in order to hold ourselves more accountable the next time, because if we allow our kids that feeling, then we will support that feeling.

depth of recognition that oh yeah this is on me i have agency over this i created this issue for myself and i think next time it comes up i can do something about it i can mitigate it there's power in that too so there's even power in the loss or the failure if we're willing to allow our kids to experience that and i think more and more parents are reluctant about that because because of our own fears

I love that.

And I'm really glad you brought up parents for kids who are differently wired.

Right.

It might feel like this metric might not apply to my children, but I think if you can adapt that a little bit, I think it absolutely does.

And there is no child who can't find some degree of competence in what they can do.

And the mistake

Or the misjudgment we make sometimes is we place unnecessary limitations on our kids.

And they are sometimes capable of things that would really, really surprise us.

Absolutely.

So if you consider your child's world today.

Picture their day at school.

If this is a weekday, picture their day at school right now.

There is a lot of noise socially, academically.

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