Dr. John Duffy
speaker
736 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Oct 2019
last heard Jan 2025
Dr. John Duffy’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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A mom recognized like, oh, I get why you don't listen to me.
You know, I come down really hard on you.
I'm not a very good listener.
So she...
she copped to all that she said effectively um i don't like the way i've been in our relationship and so and i apologize for that and i want to get to know you i want to understand your world um i don't want to take any risks with your well-being i love you too much it's too important so even if you have really hard things to say to me
I'm going to work harder than I ever have to listen and to be an ally to you as opposed to working against you and you feeling like you can't talk to me.
So she kind of hit this really, really elegant reset with her daughter.
And her daughter responded beautifully and said, I really appreciate that.
You know, like, and this is a 16 year old talking to her mother.
It was really something to witness, but I learned a lot there because it was like,
Oh, yeah, it isn't too late.
You can always come back to it and say, this hasn't gone very well, has it?
And if you're meta about it like that and you're not defensive, I think you can get movement very, very quickly.
And the emotional bank account is super malleable.
So you can move from the red to the black in the course of an hour.
I watched it happen.
And it is a lovely thing to see happen.
And you get hope very, very quickly.
Yes.
And as a cautionary note, it can go the other way too.
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