Dr. Juli (Juli) Slattery
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830 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Jul 2026
last heard 3 Aug
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Um, that rift can be everything from we just haven't had sex in several months because we haven't talked about it.
It can be there's resentment with this issue that we don't know how to navigate.
One of you feels like the other person is withholding.
And you might feel like your spouse is demanding or objectifying you, that's a rift.
It could be feeling again turned down all the time, like I just feel insecure all the time.
But that can also go into the really big issues of my spouse is looking at porn, or my wife is having an emotional affair with a coworker, or a full blown betrayal of an affair in adultery.
And so when we talk about repairing the rift, there are always going to be rifts in your marriage and in your sex life.
And if you can learn to identify and repair
repair the small ones, you're a lot more likely to avoid the big ones.
But in a lot of marriages, you are dealing with the big riffs.
You are dealing with
We have so much hurt in this area and so much history of pain and mistrust that
We don't even know where to start.
And so this is a season of marriage that we have to talk about and recognize that this is where a lot of couples might be right now.
Mm-hmm.
Yeah.
And I think part of it is if you're in a
repair the rift season, you can't say, let's just have sex.
You know, that's not the time to resist the drift.
Uh i sex is not going to fix it.
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