Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman
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How about if you just say to him, please don't put me down?
How about if you just say to him, please don't put me down?
How about if you just say to him, please don't put me down?
Yes, I was.
Yes, I was.
Yes, I was.
Not yet. Not yet. He was going there.
Not yet. Not yet. He was going there.
Not yet. Not yet. He was going there.
so i really appreciate you sharing that history that history is really helpful it lets us know that for one thing growing up in a family where you're always being attacked you've got to survive right and how do you survive you create defenses yes and your defense is to counter attack but the problem with the defense like that you know it's a shield in front of you to kind of hide yourself so you don't get shamed
so i really appreciate you sharing that history that history is really helpful it lets us know that for one thing growing up in a family where you're always being attacked you've got to survive right and how do you survive you create defenses yes and your defense is to counter attack but the problem with the defense like that you know it's a shield in front of you to kind of hide yourself so you don't get shamed
so i really appreciate you sharing that history that history is really helpful it lets us know that for one thing growing up in a family where you're always being attacked you've got to survive right and how do you survive you create defenses yes and your defense is to counter attack but the problem with the defense like that you know it's a shield in front of you to kind of hide yourself so you don't get shamed
is that you're also blocking out the positive that comes from him, the respect, the care that may be in there. Are we certain it's in there?
is that you're also blocking out the positive that comes from him, the respect, the care that may be in there. Are we certain it's in there?
is that you're also blocking out the positive that comes from him, the respect, the care that may be in there. Are we certain it's in there?
I do. I think there's a lot of caring.
I do. I think there's a lot of caring.
I do. I think there's a lot of caring.
Conan, how many decades have you been together?
Conan, how many decades have you been together?