Dr. Laurie Santos
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It's not to say those things don't work.
It's not to say those things don't work.
It's just to say that you'd actually get more bang for your time book if you were focused a little bit more on other people.
It's just to say that you'd actually get more bang for your time book if you were focused a little bit more on other people.
I think a lot of the solutions that are presented to young men are very individual solutions, like treat yourself, do yourself, you, you, you.
I think a lot of the solutions that are presented to young men are very individual solutions, like treat yourself, do yourself, you, you, you.
But those studies show that you're going to get so much more out of it if you think about connecting with other people and doing for other people.
But those studies show that you're going to get so much more out of it if you think about connecting with other people and doing for other people.
And so I would say if you're in that position, really reach out to someone.
And so I would say if you're in that position, really reach out to someone.
Ask how you can help a cause that you care about or someone else that you care about.
Ask how you can help a cause that you care about or someone else that you care about.
If you're feeling lonely, pick in your office or your friend group or your life the loneliest person that you could think about.
If you're feeling lonely, pick in your office or your friend group or your life the loneliest person that you could think about.
and just send them a text or email just to check in.
and just send them a text or email just to check in.
This seems to be the path out.
This seems to be the path out.
There's a really interesting new sociologist book on the manosphere that digs into these kind of internet cultures where people are really angry about women and very lonely young men.
There's a really interesting new sociologist book on the manosphere that digs into these kind of internet cultures where people are really angry about women and very lonely young men.