Dr. Lee Long
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What am I believing?
And I was like, I don't want this outcome from my kid, but I don't have power over that.
What do I have power over?
I have the power over the outcome that my kid's dad is not going to get kicked out of this ball game chirping at an umpire.
And I realized my power is right here keeping my mouth shut.
That's it.
That's it.
But what I see is people coming in saying, I want my mom to have better boundaries.
I want my husband or my wife to act differently.
I want my kids to behave better.
Or don't we all?
That's exactly right.
Where am I in this situation?
If I want my mom to have better boundaries, then it may be that I just have to say, hey, mom, when that topic comes up, I'm really not comfortable with it.
So could we please change the subject?
I have to have better boundaries.
Right.
But without judgment and without condemnation.
That's it.
Think about this.