Dr. Martha Beck

And if the name of that thing comes up, you can then name it. But, for example, in one of my ideal days, I was writing short – pieces of writing that I was interacting with people very regularly about it. And I couldn't even imagine what kind of job that was. And then an editor in Manhattan knocked over a manuscript I'd written. And she was the editor of a women's magazine.

And she called me and asked me to be a columnist. I was like, I was always a magazine columnist for like 20 years. And it was exactly what was in The Ideal Day, but I had not named it. I didn't know that you could live in Phoenix and be a columnist for New York magazines. So notice what you're doing.

And she called me and asked me to be a columnist. I was like, I was always a magazine columnist for like 20 years. And it was exactly what was in The Ideal Day, but I had not named it. I didn't know that you could live in Phoenix and be a columnist for New York magazines. So notice what you're doing.

And she called me and asked me to be a columnist. I was like, I was always a magazine columnist for like 20 years. And it was exactly what was in The Ideal Day, but I had not named it. I didn't know that you could live in Phoenix and be a columnist for New York magazines. So notice what you're doing.

You put on your very comfy T-shirt, very cool black jeans, your one watch, your belt, your Adidas shirt. And you go do something really fun with people you really love in a place you really enjoy.

You put on your very comfy T-shirt, very cool black jeans, your one watch, your belt, your Adidas shirt. And you go do something really fun with people you really love in a place you really enjoy.

You put on your very comfy T-shirt, very cool black jeans, your one watch, your belt, your Adidas shirt. And you go do something really fun with people you really love in a place you really enjoy.

Oh, yeah. See, now I skipped a thing. You're supposed to go down to breakfast and see if you've got a family.

Oh, yeah. See, now I skipped a thing. You're supposed to go down to breakfast and see if you've got a family.

Oh, yeah. See, now I skipped a thing. You're supposed to go down to breakfast and see if you've got a family.

Wonderful.

Wonderful.

Wonderful.

My interest-based attention system just went, oh, really? You do it for other people? Oh yeah.

My interest-based attention system just went, oh, really? You do it for other people? Oh yeah.

My interest-based attention system just went, oh, really? You do it for other people? Oh yeah.

So your kids are helping you. How many kids are there?

So your kids are helping you. How many kids are there?

So your kids are helping you. How many kids are there?

No. In your imagination. You can have 20 if you want.