Dr. Melanie Hayes

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 190: Dr. Melanie Hayes Talks About Her Big Minds Micro-School and Educating 2e Children · 29 Dec 2019 podcast

And we just love 'em through it and help 'em understand that that's not how they're gonna achieve what they really wanna achieve and we

We don't condemn them or make them feel like they're a bad person because they they tried this experience.

We just help them see what works and what doesn't work.

So, you know, that's kind of like the whole discipline model there is around

It's kind of based on on uh

Ross Green's work, uh, we call it the empathy channel, but you're gonna approach any situation with curiosity, like how can I help?

What do you need?

what sort of support do you need, what's going on, you know, and it's not a punitive, it's more of

How what what thing is happening to you right now that you need support with so that we can help you get regulated again?

And when kids know that they're treated that way, a lot of the kinds of problems you get in schools go away because this school is actually designed to meet them

uh where they're at and not to try to change them but to celebrate who they are.

And they they do feel like they've found their people.

In fact, I literally had a kid who came for Shadow Week that said, Oh my gosh, I've found my people.

That was the exact words he used.

And so

You know, they find kids who who do share

those intense passions about, you know, I have a kid who makes these amazing puzzle boxes and and he found some other kid who loves that and there's another kid who loves World War Two and he found another kid who loves that.

You know, so

So they are more likely to find somebody who shares those deep interests and passions and can um

think at that very high intel intellectual level.

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