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Dr. Paul Conti

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Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

Yes.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

Yes.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

Thank you for asking.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

It's one of the main points of the book.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

In addition to saying, hey, we can understand our mental health and build good mental health like we do our physical health.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

And here's a route to it.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

Right.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

I'm making this point that we have been misguided in how we conceive of ourselves, that a field of mental health has traditionally and across time seen us as having just assertion and pleasure drives in us.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

So that was considered as gospel.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

There are two drives in people.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

Assertion, we want to assert ourselves because we want to be able to do something and change the world around us.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

And why is that?

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

Because we want pleasure, right?

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

And that pleasure could be things that we associate with pleasurable things, food, sex, et cetera.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

But it can also be the pleasure of safety, right?

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

Of knowing there's a roof over my head.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

So we're just asserting ourselves so we can massage and manipulate the world around us so we can find our way to pleasure.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

To conceive of humans this way,

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

is so patently and obviously false.

Passion Struck with John R. Miles
How to Rebuild Mental Health and Heal Emotional Wounds | Dr. Paul Conti - EP 766

We would not be here as a species if that is all that was going on in us.