Dr Paul Eastwick
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first heard Feb 2026
last heard 22 Jun
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I think it is really, really lucky that people do this because what this means is that, okay, I'm a six.
I'm not going to date a 10.
Ah, but I might get to date somebody who I think is a 10.
And maybe, you know, she might be a six, too, but she thinks I'm a 10.
And that's where the magic is.
That's how people form stable, committed relationships, because they're able to get in a relationship where they aren't really thinking that much about trading up because they think they won the lottery, even if other people don't agree.
Yeah, I mean, it's easiest when we're discussing it like this to talk about hot or not.
We're always doing it on scales.
It's like variance shared.
In the form of dating, absolutely, in the form of dating where you have those cutoffs that you just described.
So online dating is a perfect example.
But even if we're in the mindset of the way I date is I approach strangers, parties, bars, on the street, I mean, God bless, however people wanna do it, yes.
But historically, we have found other ways.
There are many, many contexts
where we interact with other people and like you don't have a choice whether to opt out or not.
You're going to be interacting with them again next week and then the week after that and then the week after that.
I mean, school and work are kind of obvious examples where we meet the same people over time and we get to know them.
We end up chatting with them, but we're not like selecting into it in the same way.
And, you know, online dating is very popular these days, but these other methods of meeting partners have been around for a very long time and they're still out there.
So what I'm usually inclined to say is that, look, for people who do not initially present as a nine or a 10,
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