Dr. Robyn Silverman
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895 appearances
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first heard Jun 2017
last heard Dec 2021
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Exactly.
And they're constantly being told that what they're doing is wrong in looks, in words, you know, that people give them that feedback so much of the time.
So we need to be the ones who say, this is what you're doing right.
This is what I see when I look at you.
This is who I see.
And, you know, for the child who you're a 12 year old for a child who's six, they have compounded by the fact that they're also their brain is barely developed there.
Right.
They're like, you know, they're still really young and doing a lot of the behavioral choices of their age on top of maybe being differently wired.
So they're going to be getting that much more background.
to, you know, corrections.
As they're getting older, then they get the, you know, then they get the people who are like, well, he's already 12.
He should be acting like this, right?
So at that point, we need to really highlight their strengths so that they can see, you know, that what those people may have said or reflected back to them isn't actually the truth.
And we don't want it to, you know, create the feedback loop of you're not good enough.
Then I'm not good enough.
And then it goes back and forth and keeps, you know, building up steam.
And they hear it that much louder.
So we got to break that up and help them to see who they really are.
So when we're talking about CORE, we're talking about how do kids really see themselves?
And CORE stands for Comparison, Observation, Recognition, and Expertise or Efficacy.
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