Dr. Rosy Blunstone
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first heard May 2026
last heard 6 Aug
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I I'm not sure that I grew up with quite the same fear of reject it's not something you like or look forward to, but I don't think I was really quite so afraid um in the way that it seems that this community are.
Yeah.
And the thing is is that we're not um in through this, we're not testing out any of these hypotheses.
We're making assumptions this person would never be attracted to me or I didn't get this role in life because I'm not s as attractive as this other person, but we're not testing any of them out.
And you know, that is the core of, as you say, cognitive behavioural therapy is this idea of we have to how do we learn that things are different to our perceived
impression of it or our assumption or hypothesis.
How do we learn if we don't try, if we don't test it out?
And I suppose this is the the danger with this the rumination and the the the um closing off of the conversation in an echo chamber that encourages it and amplifies it more and more is a sense of
Well, don't put yourself in a position where you're potentially gonna learn that that person
It's not that they don't find you attractive, it's that they
are homosexual or they, you know, are not interested in a relationship or whatever it might be.
You're not gonna learn that.
Instead, what you should do
And I'm not saying everyone says this, but for the purposes of, you know
is smash your face with a hammer a little bit and that'll probably change things.
Like that the connection between the two is wild.
Uh yeah.
And in no way really solves
that underlying query that they have around
What is attractiveness?
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