Dr. Ryan Martin
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Okay, and the sisters are both younger than you?
Okay, and the sisters are both younger than you?
Yep, they're both younger, and everybody's alive still pretty much.
Yep, they're both younger, and everybody's alive still pretty much.
Yep, they're both younger, and everybody's alive still pretty much.
Okay, pretty much.
Okay, pretty much.
Okay, pretty much.
Yeah, I mean, some people are, you know. Got it. They're willing to risk it all, you know, but some of us are doing our best. But yeah, so that's where we had, and it was just, there was a lot of anger in there.
Yeah, I mean, some people are, you know. Got it. They're willing to risk it all, you know, but some of us are doing our best. But yeah, so that's where we had, and it was just, there was a lot of anger in there.
Yeah, I mean, some people are, you know. Got it. They're willing to risk it all, you know, but some of us are doing our best. But yeah, so that's where we had, and it was just, there was a lot of anger in there.
You know, I think that my feeling is with kids in particular, I mean, we can think about this from the, well, I'll start with what I consider to be sort of the golden rule of emotion and parenting. And that is that kids tend to express emotions the way their caregivers did.
You know, I think that my feeling is with kids in particular, I mean, we can think about this from the, well, I'll start with what I consider to be sort of the golden rule of emotion and parenting. And that is that kids tend to express emotions the way their caregivers did.
You know, I think that my feeling is with kids in particular, I mean, we can think about this from the, well, I'll start with what I consider to be sort of the golden rule of emotion and parenting. And that is that kids tend to express emotions the way their caregivers did.
and so they tend to and it's it's rooted in like age-old psychology that we it's called modeling right and so kids tend to model what their parents did that if mom or dad yell and scream kids tend to yell and scream as a way of of dealing with emotions and um
and so they tend to and it's it's rooted in like age-old psychology that we it's called modeling right and so kids tend to model what their parents did that if mom or dad yell and scream kids tend to yell and scream as a way of of dealing with emotions and um
and so they tend to and it's it's rooted in like age-old psychology that we it's called modeling right and so kids tend to model what their parents did that if mom or dad yell and scream kids tend to yell and scream as a way of of dealing with emotions and um
Now, there's some caveats to that because simultaneously, the other side is that kids sometimes get rewarded or punished for emotional expressions of particular types, right? So a kid hits somebody and they get punished for it. Yeah. Now, oddly enough, sometimes they get punished for it by getting hit by the parent, right? Getting spanked or whatever.
Now, there's some caveats to that because simultaneously, the other side is that kids sometimes get rewarded or punished for emotional expressions of particular types, right? So a kid hits somebody and they get punished for it. Yeah. Now, oddly enough, sometimes they get punished for it by getting hit by the parent, right? Getting spanked or whatever.
Now, there's some caveats to that because simultaneously, the other side is that kids sometimes get rewarded or punished for emotional expressions of particular types, right? So a kid hits somebody and they get punished for it. Yeah. Now, oddly enough, sometimes they get punished for it by getting hit by the parent, right? Getting spanked or whatever.