Dr. Ryan Martin

Let's make sure we make up for what we did. So it's not like it's consequence free. People oftentimes accuse me of being sort of wimpy and like, hey, you're you're letting your kids walk all over you. They got to get punished or whatever. It's not that it's consequence-free. It's like, no, we're going to deal with those feelings and try and figure out sort of the best way to handle it.

Let's make sure we make up for what we did. So it's not like it's consequence free. People oftentimes accuse me of being sort of wimpy and like, hey, you're you're letting your kids walk all over you. They got to get punished or whatever. It's not that it's consequence-free. It's like, no, we're going to deal with those feelings and try and figure out sort of the best way to handle it.

Let's make sure we make up for what we did. So it's not like it's consequence free. People oftentimes accuse me of being sort of wimpy and like, hey, you're you're letting your kids walk all over you. They got to get punished or whatever. It's not that it's consequence-free. It's like, no, we're going to deal with those feelings and try and figure out sort of the best way to handle it.

And yeah, that helps them develop that emotional resilience going forward.

And yeah, that helps them develop that emotional resilience going forward.

And yeah, that helps them develop that emotional resilience going forward.

Yeah. At least having some emotional understanding of yourself. Yep. But how do you then like put the cap on it where you're like, yeah, it's okay if my kid is, you know, like, um, we're like, how do we not turn into one of these societies where it's just like, oh, I don't feel like going to work today. So I'm not going to go. Yeah. You know, like that's nobody ever feels like going away.

Yeah. At least having some emotional understanding of yourself. Yep. But how do you then like put the cap on it where you're like, yeah, it's okay if my kid is, you know, like, um, we're like, how do we not turn into one of these societies where it's just like, oh, I don't feel like going to work today. So I'm not going to go. Yeah. You know, like that's nobody ever feels like going away.

Yeah. At least having some emotional understanding of yourself. Yep. But how do you then like put the cap on it where you're like, yeah, it's okay if my kid is, you know, like, um, we're like, how do we not turn into one of these societies where it's just like, oh, I don't feel like going to work today. So I'm not going to go. Yeah. You know, like that's nobody ever feels like going away.

That's the first thing I should tell you when you ever go to school. Yeah. One day you're going to go to work and nobody's going to feel like it. That should be the first thing that they teach us.

That's the first thing I should tell you when you ever go to school. Yeah. One day you're going to go to work and nobody's going to feel like it. That should be the first thing that they teach us.

That's the first thing I should tell you when you ever go to school. Yeah. One day you're going to go to work and nobody's going to feel like it. That should be the first thing that they teach us.

yeah no I mean it's true like the message also has to be that your emotions alone aren't necessarily reason not to do something yeah you know I mean that's the you know I have two kids both of them are very very awesome in different ways but the The one is he's a performer, he's a dancer, and he's in a lot of musicals and things like that.

yeah no I mean it's true like the message also has to be that your emotions alone aren't necessarily reason not to do something yeah you know I mean that's the you know I have two kids both of them are very very awesome in different ways but the The one is he's a performer, he's a dancer, and he's in a lot of musicals and things like that.

yeah no I mean it's true like the message also has to be that your emotions alone aren't necessarily reason not to do something yeah you know I mean that's the you know I have two kids both of them are very very awesome in different ways but the The one is he's a performer, he's a dancer, and he's in a lot of musicals and things like that.

And one of the things that I can say about him is people often talk about how brave he is, and he is. But I know him well enough to know that he gets real anxious about performing and those things. He's feeling that fear. It's not that he's not scared. It's that he knows how to do things anyways. And that's where you want people to get.

And one of the things that I can say about him is people often talk about how brave he is, and he is. But I know him well enough to know that he gets real anxious about performing and those things. He's feeling that fear. It's not that he's not scared. It's that he knows how to do things anyways. And that's where you want people to get.

And one of the things that I can say about him is people often talk about how brave he is, and he is. But I know him well enough to know that he gets real anxious about performing and those things. He's feeling that fear. It's not that he's not scared. It's that he knows how to do things anyways. And that's where you want people to get.

Like you want people to get to a point of right now, you know what, I'm feeling sad and I don't feel like being able to go, I don't feel like going to work, but I also need to do it. I understand what my responsibilities are and I can work through that. And I think there's something to be said. I mean, to me, that's a big part of what emotional resilience is.

Like you want people to get to a point of right now, you know what, I'm feeling sad and I don't feel like being able to go, I don't feel like going to work, but I also need to do it. I understand what my responsibilities are and I can work through that. And I think there's something to be said. I mean, to me, that's a big part of what emotional resilience is.