Dr. Ryan Martin

And with kids, I want them to feel some anxiety and learn that they can just do the thing anyways. I want them to feel some fear, some anger, and learn that they can do the thing anyways and work through it. That's a good, healthy way to be.

Yeah, it's just interesting when you think about like, that it's the parent's responsibility to do all of that. Like how many little things that they learn because of how the parents let them absorb it.

Yeah, it's just interesting when you think about like, that it's the parent's responsibility to do all of that. Like how many little things that they learn because of how the parents let them absorb it.

Yeah, it's just interesting when you think about like, that it's the parent's responsibility to do all of that. Like how many little things that they learn because of how the parents let them absorb it.

I think one of the challenges is I imagine that our parents' age, it wasn't on their radar to be thinking about stuff like this. No. You know, that they just didn't know. And so they weren't necessarily attuned to like what what kids might need or benefit from from an emotional perspective.

I think one of the challenges is I imagine that our parents' age, it wasn't on their radar to be thinking about stuff like this. No. You know, that they just didn't know. And so they weren't necessarily attuned to like what what kids might need or benefit from from an emotional perspective.

I think one of the challenges is I imagine that our parents' age, it wasn't on their radar to be thinking about stuff like this. No. You know, that they just didn't know. And so they weren't necessarily attuned to like what what kids might need or benefit from from an emotional perspective.

Yeah, it was a different time. Another thing that really I'll get angry is if I expect people to it's kind of unrealistic expectations, but it's thinking people should know what I want, even if I haven't explained it.

Yeah, it was a different time. Another thing that really I'll get angry is if I expect people to it's kind of unrealistic expectations, but it's thinking people should know what I want, even if I haven't explained it.

Yeah, it was a different time. Another thing that really I'll get angry is if I expect people to it's kind of unrealistic expectations, but it's thinking people should know what I want, even if I haven't explained it.

Yeah, there's a name for this, and it's escaping me right now. But there is that sort of like, it's like the opposite of mind reading. It's like they should be able to read your mind, right? And know exactly. Yeah, and so it's like, hey, why don't they know exactly the way I want this thing done? And then why aren't they doing it that way?

Yeah, there's a name for this, and it's escaping me right now. But there is that sort of like, it's like the opposite of mind reading. It's like they should be able to read your mind, right? And know exactly. Yeah, and so it's like, hey, why don't they know exactly the way I want this thing done? And then why aren't they doing it that way?

Yeah, there's a name for this, and it's escaping me right now. But there is that sort of like, it's like the opposite of mind reading. It's like they should be able to read your mind, right? And know exactly. Yeah, and so it's like, hey, why don't they know exactly the way I want this thing done? And then why aren't they doing it that way?

Yeah, and for people who are ambitious and people who are success-driven, then that becomes a sticking point. It's part of that type A thing that I mentioned before. It becomes a sticking point, leads to that frustration. Why isn't it happening the way I want it to?

Yeah, and for people who are ambitious and people who are success-driven, then that becomes a sticking point. It's part of that type A thing that I mentioned before. It becomes a sticking point, leads to that frustration. Why isn't it happening the way I want it to?

Yeah, and for people who are ambitious and people who are success-driven, then that becomes a sticking point. It's part of that type A thing that I mentioned before. It becomes a sticking point, leads to that frustration. Why isn't it happening the way I want it to?

What other personality types and what types of angers do they have? Do they have all of specific angers or not really? You just find that type A has more.

What other personality types and what types of angers do they have? Do they have all of specific angers or not really? You just find that type A has more.

What other personality types and what types of angers do they have? Do they have all of specific angers or not really? You just find that type A has more.

Yeah, I mean type A is – I mean originally part of how it was sort of identified was that it was – that people with type A, with that behavior pattern they called it at the time, they were – that they were angrier, more aggressive.