Dr. Ryan Martin

And this is particularly true of ambitious people is that they say, well, I can just keep going. There's no end. There's no end to the amount of work that I can find to fill in. And if I want to be successful in the ways I want to be successful, then that's what I've got to do. And then that's, that hurts, right? We suffer in the long run.

And it makes me think when you're talking about that, do we have like just such on, like, how do we temper or. how do we perspectivize our goals for success? How do we look at, can you help me say what I'm trying to say?

And it makes me think when you're talking about that, do we have like just such on, like, how do we temper or. how do we perspectivize our goals for success? How do we look at, can you help me say what I'm trying to say?

And it makes me think when you're talking about that, do we have like just such on, like, how do we temper or. how do we perspectivize our goals for success? How do we look at, can you help me say what I'm trying to say?

When are, when is it enough? Right.

When are, when is it enough? Right.

When are, when is it enough? Right.

I mean, how can we even frame it for ourselves so that we're not just have this blind thing. Yeah. Like you need to be successful. Right. So that it's actually specific and realistic and yeah. And then when is enough?

I mean, how can we even frame it for ourselves so that we're not just have this blind thing. Yeah. Like you need to be successful. Right. So that it's actually specific and realistic and yeah. And then when is enough?

I mean, how can we even frame it for ourselves so that we're not just have this blind thing. Yeah. Like you need to be successful. Right. So that it's actually specific and realistic and yeah. And then when is enough?

Right. Well, I mean, because in some way, I mean, you said before you like running, I don't know if you do, if you do races, like if you've ever, if you ever run, you know, whatever. Um, but I mean, it'd be like, I don't do races.

Right. Well, I mean, because in some way, I mean, you said before you like running, I don't know if you do, if you do races, like if you've ever, if you ever run, you know, whatever. Um, but I mean, it'd be like, I don't do races.

Right. Well, I mean, because in some way, I mean, you said before you like running, I don't know if you do, if you do races, like if you've ever, if you ever run, you know, whatever. Um, but I mean, it'd be like, I don't do races.

I would do them, but I don't do them yet.

I would do them, but I don't do them yet.

I would do them, but I don't do them yet.

But it's like, it's like if you, if every race you did, the finish line just kept moving. Because we move it on ourselves and we don't accept that we've accomplished a thing. I do. I mean, one of the things I do to sort of keep myself happy, even though I have this personality style too, where I'm just constantly adding to-dos, one of the ways I keep myself happy is by

But it's like, it's like if you, if every race you did, the finish line just kept moving. Because we move it on ourselves and we don't accept that we've accomplished a thing. I do. I mean, one of the things I do to sort of keep myself happy, even though I have this personality style too, where I'm just constantly adding to-dos, one of the ways I keep myself happy is by

But it's like, it's like if you, if every race you did, the finish line just kept moving. Because we move it on ourselves and we don't accept that we've accomplished a thing. I do. I mean, one of the things I do to sort of keep myself happy, even though I have this personality style too, where I'm just constantly adding to-dos, one of the ways I keep myself happy is by

by really marking those achievements. When I've finished a thing, I treat it like an accomplishment. I don't just add to it. I stop and I say, we did a thing. Let's be happy about that. Let's be excited. Now we can take a day before we move on to the next thing. So the next thing's still going to be there for me. And I admit, I think there's something about me that I need that next thing.