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Dr. Shadé Zahrai

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The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

Now, when this is weak,

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

Yes.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

Let's explore what this looks like.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

So if this is weak, if you struggle with your agency, we see a number of patterns here.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

The first one is the dreaded imposter syndrome, where you have achieved things in your life, amazing things, maybe recognition, maybe awards, maybe an amazing job title.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

And yet you feel like you don't deserve it.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

You feel like someone is going to highlight that you shouldn't be where you are.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

And so essentially what it comes down to is that you believe other people think you're smarter

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

or more competent than you really are.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

Now, a few things about imposter syndrome.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

The term imposter syndrome was not the term that was used initially when it was discovered.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

Back in the 70s, 80s, when it was first observed, they called it the imposter phenomenon.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

Now, what's the difference between a phenomenon?

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

So a phenomenon is basically where you observe something in a population of people.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

A syndrome is something that seems medical and seems pathological and seems like something is wrong with us.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

Okay.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

And so we need to think, when we feel like an imposter...

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

It's actually far more common than you'd expect.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

In fact, some studies have found up to 82% of people have felt like an imposter at some point.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence

And the beautiful thing about feeling like an imposter is it is a sign that you are growing.