Dr. Tara Swart

I find like when people think about this, one of the things that kind of keeps tripping them up is Jay, I can say it and I can think it, but I don't believe it.

I find like when people think about this, one of the things that kind of keeps tripping them up is Jay, I can say it and I can think it, but I don't believe it.

Right. And I'm sure you've heard that a million times, that fear of like, okay, well, you know, I don't believe I can start living my passion and I don't believe that I can do what I love for work or I don't believe that I have, it's possible for someone like me to achieve whatever else it may be.

Right. And I'm sure you've heard that a million times, that fear of like, okay, well, you know, I don't believe I can start living my passion and I don't believe that I can do what I love for work or I don't believe that I have, it's possible for someone like me to achieve whatever else it may be.

And then I can say it to myself before I go to bed, but I don't believe it because I don't believe it. I stopped doing it after two to three days. What's the difference between someone who's practicing this in a way that it works and we'll get onto action in a second, but at least practicing the belief change, because I'm, I'm fully with you, by the way.

And then I can say it to myself before I go to bed, but I don't believe it because I don't believe it. I stopped doing it after two to three days. What's the difference between someone who's practicing this in a way that it works and we'll get onto action in a second, but at least practicing the belief change, because I'm, I'm fully with you, by the way.

Like I remember I had a mentor that used to constantly say to me, he'd say, Jay, you're an entrepreneur. You're an entrepreneur. You're an entrepreneur. And at this time I was working a full-time job, nine to five and getting paid, whatever it was. And he'd keep telling me, be like, Jay, you're an entrepreneur. And I'd keep telling him, I'd be like, no, I'm not. No, I'm not. No, I'm not.

Like I remember I had a mentor that used to constantly say to me, he'd say, Jay, you're an entrepreneur. You're an entrepreneur. You're an entrepreneur. And at this time I was working a full-time job, nine to five and getting paid, whatever it was. And he'd keep telling me, be like, Jay, you're an entrepreneur. And I'd keep telling him, I'd be like, no, I'm not. No, I'm not. No, I'm not.

I'm, I'm an artist. I'm a creative. I'm definitely not an entrepreneur. The last thing I want to do is run a business. Like that's just not who I am. And if you asked me, I would have said I'm a very self-aware person at this point in my life. It wasn't that I didn't reflect enough. I felt like I really knew who I was.

I'm, I'm an artist. I'm a creative. I'm definitely not an entrepreneur. The last thing I want to do is run a business. Like that's just not who I am. And if you asked me, I would have said I'm a very self-aware person at this point in my life. It wasn't that I didn't reflect enough. I felt like I really knew who I was.

And then it was only when I was required to have to be an entrepreneur did I have to shift into that gear and become one. But if you still ask me today, I'm like, I'm an entrepreneur, but I much prefer being a creative and an artist and a thinker. That's where I thrive, if you ask me.

And then it was only when I was required to have to be an entrepreneur did I have to shift into that gear and become one. But if you still ask me today, I'm like, I'm an entrepreneur, but I much prefer being a creative and an artist and a thinker. That's where I thrive, if you ask me.

But I did something when I was required to do it. So I see you smiling. And so I want to hear your reaction to what I'm sharing.

But I did something when I was required to do it. So I see you smiling. And so I want to hear your reaction to what I'm sharing.

We think it's too ridiculous or too out there or, right.

We think it's too ridiculous or too out there or, right.

That initial challenge of like you're saying that... even becoming aware that we don't believe we deserve something or something's meant for us, it can be such an uncomfortable discovery because it almost starts indicating towards the fact that

That initial challenge of like you're saying that... even becoming aware that we don't believe we deserve something or something's meant for us, it can be such an uncomfortable discovery because it almost starts indicating towards the fact that

there are past experiences, past traumas, past relationships that you now have to go back to and uncover and unlearn and understand because you've almost been living in a sense of darkness in that area of your life. And I think that can be really disconcerting because it requires so much time and energy to actually go back there and excavate and look at it and face it head on.

there are past experiences, past traumas, past relationships that you now have to go back to and uncover and unlearn and understand because you've almost been living in a sense of darkness in that area of your life. And I think that can be really disconcerting because it requires so much time and energy to actually go back there and excavate and look at it and face it head on.