Dr. Todd Rose
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You interview them after, they're like, no, that didn't affect me at all.
So when I say it's hardwired, that's what I mean.
Even as something as subjective as attractiveness, we just want to be with our groups.
And there's a lot that we'll do to maintain that group alignment.
Didn't even contemplate it.
You just went with it.
It's coming back to that need to belong that we just talked about and the possibility of conformity there.
Because the norm in our society is when you go out socially, you drink.
And people that don't drink aren't fun.
That's the stereotype.
At the same time, you don't want to go against the grain.
Right?
I don't think I would have anything either.
And that's the thing is because you don't have the simple tips and tricks that you can use to not put yourself in that.
Well, I don't want to come off as something I don't think I am.
I think I'm fun.
I think I'm social.
I like to hang out with people.
So something like, you know what?
I decided to take a month off.