Dr. Tristan Ingalls

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4,386 appearances 21 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2025 last heard 31 Aug

Dr. Tristan Ingalls’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Serial Killers & Murderous Minds · Shelly Michael: Nurse, Wife, and Killer Pt. 1 · 24 Aug 2026 podcast

And they may also prioritize the needs of them over their own because the relationship itself becomes closely tied to their own sense of security or self-worth. voice-verified

There may have already been some hints of that with Shelly's behavior. voice-verified

For example, when she went shoplifting and carried the bags for her friends. voice-verified

And of course, that could simply be normal adolescent peer pressure as well. voice-verified

But the same applies about her decision to have an abortion with Rob when she didn't previously want one with Bruce. voice-verified

It could be her desire to preserve her relationship with Rob, because choosing to have one present. voice-verified

Previously, did not preserve her relationship in the past with Bruce. voice-verified

And at the same time, it could have just been a decision that she decided to make for herself for other reasons as well. voice-verified

We don't know what she wanted or valued at this point, so it's difficult to tell without her sharing herself. voice-verified

But instead, right now, they look like isolated decisions. voice-verified

However, if they were part of a voice-verified

a broader, consistent and clear pattern of sacrificing her own judgment, values, or needs to preserve relationships or to gain acceptance from others, then I would be a little bit more concerned that it's related to her attachment style. voice-verified

himself. voice-verified

I think that's really possible. voice-verified

People don't just attach to the person, they attach to what they imagine with that person as well. voice-verified

And once they've become like invested in that future, they can be more likely to minimize or rationalize or even overlook the red flags or concerning behavior because voice-verified

They don't want to accept the possible loss of that future. voice-verified

And like you said, she thought Rob would make a great father figure for her son. voice-verified

And so she might be attached to this idea of of a family or security or stability. voice-verified

And that's what she's holding on to. voice-verified

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