Dr. Tristan Ingalls

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4,386 appearances 21 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2025 last heard 31 Aug

Dr. Tristan Ingalls’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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Serial Killers & Murderous Minds · Shelly Michael: Nurse, Wife, and Killer Pt. 1 · 24 Aug 2026 podcast

We are seeing another pattern take place. voice-verified

She's now settled in her marriage with Jimmy. voice-verified

The hedonic treadmill and the arrival fallacy are still in effect if that is what's occurring. voice-verified

And as such, she's likely adapted to this new life that she's built with Jimmy. voice-verified

So she sets out with a new venture, which is embroidery, and does so incidentally when she meets a new couple, Bobby and Kelly. voice-verified

It's the same situation. voice-verified

As when she was married to Rob and she met Jimmy and Stephanie for the first time. voice-verified

And obviously, I can't know for sure, but she likely saw something in their marriage, Bobby and Kelly's marriage, that represented or symbolized something that she wanted for herself, something more fulfilling than what she had with Jimmy. voice-verified

And thus the focus shifted again towards something new, something different, and something that promised her a better. voice-verified

Yeah. voice-verified

When our behavior conflicts with our values, it creates cognitive dissonance, which is the psychological discomfort of holding two conflicting realities at the same time. voice-verified

And when people experience that, they usually don't abandon their values. voice-verified

They change the narrative around their behavior. voice-verified

In Shelley's case, it would likely be a focus on how unhappy she is in her marriage when it came to Rob. voice-verified

How abusive it was to her or her son, or convincing herself it was already over anyway, and that she had sacrificed years and deserves happiness, the last part of which isn't untrue. voice-verified

Everyone deserves a safe and happy life. voice-verified

But she's attempting to justify actions that aren't in alignment with her values. voice-verified

And it's common for people to reduce that internal conflict by changing the meaning of. voice-verified

their behavior. voice-verified

So of course the other possibility though is that the values themselves changed over time as well because people change and priorities change too. voice-verified

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