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Dr. Yalda Safai

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315 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Was du nicht kontrollieren kannst, ist, wir haben darΓΌber gesprochen, Dating ist nicht wie Arbeit. Mit Arbeit, du, du hustelst, du kommst irgendwo hin, du wirst erfolgreich. Mit Dating, du kannst nicht hart daran arbeiten. Es funktioniert nicht so. Das Einzige, was du kontrollieren kannst, ist dich selbst. Deine mentale und physische Gesundheit.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Was du nicht kontrollieren kannst, ist, wir haben darΓΌber gesprochen, Dating ist nicht wie Arbeit. Mit Arbeit, du, du hustelst, du kommst irgendwo hin, du wirst erfolgreich. Mit Dating, du kannst nicht hart daran arbeiten. Es funktioniert nicht so. Das Einzige, was du kontrollieren kannst, ist dich selbst. Deine mentale und physische Gesundheit.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Ja.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Ja.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Ja.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Well, when my mom's generation was growing up, oftentimes the women would not work. They were inside the home. They had certain responsibilities. The man was outside the house. There was a dependency on each other. The woman financially was dependent on the man. The man was dependent on the woman for meals, to take care of the kids. That dependency is gone.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Well, when my mom's generation was growing up, oftentimes the women would not work. They were inside the home. They had certain responsibilities. The man was outside the house. There was a dependency on each other. The woman financially was dependent on the man. The man was dependent on the woman for meals, to take care of the kids. That dependency is gone.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

Well, when my mom's generation was growing up, oftentimes the women would not work. They were inside the home. They had certain responsibilities. The man was outside the house. There was a dependency on each other. The woman financially was dependent on the man. The man was dependent on the woman for meals, to take care of the kids. That dependency is gone.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

We don't need a partnership to survive anymore. Women are independent. They have their own money. They can order Uber Eats every day. Even men can, right? You don't need companionship. And with the Internet, it is so easy to be able to go out on dates whenever you want, meet up with friends whenever you want.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

We don't need a partnership to survive anymore. Women are independent. They have their own money. They can order Uber Eats every day. Even men can, right? You don't need companionship. And with the Internet, it is so easy to be able to go out on dates whenever you want, meet up with friends whenever you want.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

We don't need a partnership to survive anymore. Women are independent. They have their own money. They can order Uber Eats every day. Even men can, right? You don't need companionship. And with the Internet, it is so easy to be able to go out on dates whenever you want, meet up with friends whenever you want.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

So I think at a certain point in time where there was no Internet and people were dependent on each other, you needed it. The need is gone. So women, and this is a good thing, they don't, Ja. Ja. Ja. Ja. I see this newer generation, they're not even thinking about marriage. That is not even in their vocabulary.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

So I think at a certain point in time where there was no Internet and people were dependent on each other, you needed it. The need is gone. So women, and this is a good thing, they don't, Ja. Ja. Ja. Ja. I see this newer generation, they're not even thinking about marriage. That is not even in their vocabulary.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

So I think at a certain point in time where there was no Internet and people were dependent on each other, you needed it. The need is gone. So women, and this is a good thing, they don't, Ja. Ja. Ja. Ja. I see this newer generation, they're not even thinking about marriage. That is not even in their vocabulary.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

So my generation is really stuck between the old and the new, which is a very confusing place to be.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

So my generation is really stuck between the old and the new, which is a very confusing place to be.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

So my generation is really stuck between the old and the new, which is a very confusing place to be.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

If that's really what you want, it will happen. And I know, my mom used to tell me that my entire life. She's like, don't worry, he will come, he will come. And I'm like, how are you saying this to me? Like, how are you just saying he'll come? I'm 37 years old, he's not going to come. My mom kept saying, have faith. And she was right.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

If that's really what you want, it will happen. And I know, my mom used to tell me that my entire life. She's like, don't worry, he will come, he will come. And I'm like, how are you saying this to me? Like, how are you just saying he'll come? I'm 37 years old, he's not going to come. My mom kept saying, have faith. And she was right.

The Tamsen Show
The Science of Rebooting Your Life: Dopamine, Dating & Doing Things Differently

If that's really what you want, it will happen. And I know, my mom used to tell me that my entire life. She's like, don't worry, he will come, he will come. And I'm like, how are you saying this to me? Like, how are you just saying he'll come? I'm 37 years old, he's not going to come. My mom kept saying, have faith. And she was right.