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Drew Burney

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2458 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So it's called the fresh start effect because that motivation is real.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

It's there.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Like we're all motivated around those.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

It creates a good little story, a before and after story.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

This was me before COVID.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

here's the start point and this is me after, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

The problem is, is that we're not actually addressing like the adaptations underneath that.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And we have to do that by just targeting the behavior, the single behaviors that we've been talking about.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Wait almost 30 more days, yeah, yeah.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Okay.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So the other one though is what they call ironic process theory.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Okay.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And we've talked about this a little bit before I think, but you know, just the quick example is Mark, don't think of a white bear.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

What do you think about?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

You're thinking of a white bear.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

This was Daniel Wagner.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

He came up with this, you know, and the things that we try to suppress and not do are usually the things that are the most salient to us.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And so we just end up doing them or we ruminate on them too much that we can't get them out of our heads.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

We obsess over them.