Elisa Donovan
speaker
4,416 appearances
20 recordings
2 series
first heard Jan 2026
last heard 4d ago
Elisa Donovan’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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But when brought to my attention, let's say it's just a long pattern I've had my entire existence because for whatever reason in my upbringing, that's just how I came to be.
I modeled my parents' behavior, whatever, or I did it because I had to survive childhood, whatever, right?
If someone brings to my, if you bring to my attention, you're like, Jamie, you know what?
Every time I try to talk to you about something important to me, you always make it about yourself.
All you care about is yourself.
And I say, oh my God, I'm so sorry.
I didn't realize I did that, right?
And I have some sense of remorse.
It may be hard for me to change it because it's all I know, but I don't want to hurt you, right?
Whereas somebody who's narcissistic, it's always about them because you're just an object, right?
You don't matter.
Your feelings, your concerns, how I'm hurting you, it doesn't, it doesn't, it's neither here nor there for you because it gives you nothing.
Wow.
So there is a piece of just simple accountability or awareness.
Yes.
Great work.
Yes.
I always tell people, narcissists do not have accountability.
They will project onto others.
They will gaslight the crap out of you to make you feel like somehow this is your fault.
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