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Elisa Donovan

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Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

But what they're forgetting is that there's actual neurological changes that occur in your brain, right?

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

There's actual cognitive changes that occur in your brain that make it impossible to see otherwise.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

Right.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

So what, like in Elizabeth Smart's case, she was captive for nine months.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

So what happens psychologically when somebody is controlled for that long?

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

Yeah.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

So one is your fight or flight response, right, which is what we have to innately keep us alive and survive.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

When you're in those types of environments, you kind of go into this freeze mode, right?

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

And it's a form of self-protection.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

And so when you're in that freeze mode, you don't act.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

And so we see that a lot, unfortunately, in sexual assaults.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

Right.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

When people don't fight back, it's their body literally does what their body thinks is the best thing to do to protect them in that moment.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

And so when you have that response coupled with if you leave, I'll kill you.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

Your family doesn't love you.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

Nobody's looking for you.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

You're so limited in your response options.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

And then neurologically, your brain starts to reset itself for survival.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

It's all you can do.

Amy Robach & T.J. Holmes Present
Killer Thriller: You’re Not Crazy. You’re Being Gaslit.

And so you're basically resetting yourself for survival.