Elisa Donovan
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Tell the person that you're sick one day, and I used to get so much crap for this, but tell the person you're sick and you need to cancel plans and see what their response is.
Do they ghost you?
Do they get angry at you?
Do they show up at your house anyway with flowers and soup and say, I'm here to make you feel better?
How do they respond?
Right.
Yeah.
Right.
Do they hear what you're saying, which is, I am not well.
I'm going to rest today.
I don't want to be together.
Yes.
Right.
Yes.
See how they talk to waiters and waitresses.
See how they talk about their exes.
How do they talk about their family?
Do they have friends?
All these little things that when things are so good, you may not really pay attention to.
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