Elise

Okay.

He used to do really small gestures for me.

I mean, like he would bring me a drink when he'd come home from work.

Um, or he would bring me flowers and I don't really remember the last time I got flowers or anything like that.

Yeah.

Um, I don't think that we've had any like dates since we've had our son.

I don't even think that we had a date while I was pregnant.

I don't know.

Maybe just take over a little bit more with the kids so it's not all on me.

Right.

I just, part of me feels like he doesn't know how to handle it.

So he just chooses not to in a way.

Yeah.

Yeah, that makes sense.

I think some of my frustration comes from, I feel like he's being very selfish right now, whereas I'm having to be very selfless in everything that I do.

I mean, my career, being a mom, putting all my other free time into being a student.

Yeah, he works and he's also a student.

So we were both under a fair amount of stress, but I'm not using it as an excuse to not do anything.

But he did make a comment to me the other day.

He's