Elise
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I don't even think that we had a date while I was pregnant.
I don't know.
Maybe just take over a little bit more with the kids so it's not all on me.
I just, part of me feels like he doesn't know how to handle it.
So he just chooses not to in a way.
Yeah, that makes sense.
I think some of my frustration comes from, I feel like he's being very selfish right now, whereas I'm having to be very selfless in everything that I do.
I mean, my career, being a mom, putting all my other free time into being a student.
Yeah, he works and he's also a student.
So we were both under a fair amount of stress, but I'm not using it as an excuse to not do anything.
But he did make a comment to me the other day.
I want me back too.
But this has been hard.
It's really hard to not keep the score.
It's so easy to do in parenthood.
I feel like maybe I was the only one that understood that things would, our marriage at least would change a bit.