Elizabeth Ayoola
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
That's it.
I mean, as we're talking, I'm like, well, maybe a good first date.
Okay.
That's too early.
Maybe third date practice.
It's like, Hey, let's look at each other's, I don't know, wherever you shop basket or what you've bought over the last five months.
It feels intrusive.
Yes.
But it'll give you an idea of what you spend on.
And then if they judge you, you know, that that's not the right person for you.
Okay.
So there you go.
Oh my God.
I agree.
Not saying I would do it.
Just an idea.
So what are some of the things that people are hiding?
And just one more thing on that that I was thinking is it can also be hard to be honest with your partner about your finances if you feel shame yourself.
So there's one on one part, you being afraid of your partner shaming you.
But then on the other part, there's you being ashamed of your own spending.